Southbound

If all goes as planned, you’re reading this and Beth and I are in Gulfport, Florida, a delightful little town fifteen minutes from our oldest daughter’s digs in St. Petersburg. If not, we’re somewhere between New York, 35,000 feet above the Atlantic and where we land in Sarasota. After a 3 hour departure delay, I’m …

Our Toms

In between my first music career as a saloon singer and my second one as a children’s singer-songwriter, I spent 7 years as a commercial carpet salesman and estimator. Although it was far from the perfect job for me, I did well, eventually making a six figure income in my twenties. As a good employee, …

Growing Up

This past week we finalized our plans to visit Crete, the largest of Greece’s islands, after our 12 days on the mainland. We watched videos made by other travelers in order to determine which sites and cities we might visit (and avoid) and checked out maps to figure out how many possible destinations might align …

Joy

Lately, I have been really enjoying our children’s concerts. Having grown more accustomed to songwriting programs with upper elementary and mindfulness workshops with middle schoolers, the return to our performing roots has been wonderful on a different level. Energetically, it takes more out of Beth and I to drive to a gig, unload our tuck, …

Size Matters

In between chapters of whatever book I’m reading on Kindle, I like to peruse Reddit. My feed is full of cars, guitars, birds and lots of user-created questions like this one… “Which rock bands should just retire”? As you might imagine, the answers people post are focused on the bands that peaked in the 1970s …

Soft Sense

My wife was listening to a Scott Galloway interview, today. Per usual, I overheard enough to think, “Yes. He’s right about that” followed shortly by, “Jesus, Dude. You can be a real dick, sometimes.” Masculinity, it seems, can be characterized by some as the tendency to say what you are thinking with assertive language. To …