DeBearding

Every two or three years, I shave my beard. Typically, it’s because I’ve gotten fed up with something and want to start with a clean slate. In this case, I want to rededicate myself to physical fitness, to look better and feel better about myself. My father once said, “One of the best things about …

Seriously?

Apparently, some people take this blog of mine seriously. The other day, for example, a reader accused me of not living up to something I wrote and basically called me a hypocrite. Listen, writers are illusionists. In the moment, we might be very sincere about something, but that doesn’t make it the new King James …

Two Sides

Beth and I are taking some downtime – a couple of days before we return to our normal schedule. We know from experience that a pause, a transitional moment when we do less, makes sense for our emotional wellbeing. As an American trained in a culture of doing, however, pausing brings on two distinct and …