Yesterday, I wisely chose to do less. This is not my default programming. I come from a long line of plate spinners who can hop on one leg while whistling Rhapsody in Blue. So, opting to pick a few things to accomplish during a given day – instead of seventeen – is a new paradigm …
When our daughter, Steph, used to come home after being away for an extended period, it would take her some time to settle in. Then, it would be difficult to leave because she HAD settled in! I can relate to this because every time we spend more than one week at a place, I feel …
I’ve written about this before, but it’s worth repeating. As a boy and a young man, most of my adult, male role models were staunch supporters of the concept “real men go at it alone!” There were variants that included others like “behind every successful man is a smart woman” or “there’s no ‘I’ in …
A long-held dream of mine was to write a bunch of new songs for what I call “big people” and release them on a CD. I waited long enough that CDs are no longer popular, so I’ve posted them digitally on a site called Bandcamp. The collection of 16 songs is called “Create Without Caution” …
An American RV is not made to withstand the daily rigor of full-time travel. The manufacturers, watching their bottom line and trying to keep trailers light, make decisions that cause many of the interior and exterior parts to need repair or replacement. It’s just the way it is. As I write this, our good friend …
Bradley visited his hairstylist, today. He’s been a great customer at Yorktown Pet Grooming for his entire life – 14 years! I love it when he comes home, handsome and ready to play. On a sad note, my brother put his dog, Boo, to sleep this week. She was nearly 15 and had beaten cancer …
Carol Dweck, the author of “Mindset,” discusses two different states of being we humans tend towards: fixed mindset and growth mindset. One of our school programs, “I Can: The Grit snd Growth Mindset Show,” uses Dweck’s findings to teach upper elementary and, now, middle schoolers about these terms and how understanding and applying them can …
Are you a workaholic? I am a recovering one. Some days, I’m able to enjoy the sweetness of life and other days I feel compelled to disregard everything but forward progress. On those days I am a human doing, not a human being. Luckily, my body sends very strong signals when I fall into this …
I am tired, oh, so tired. We have been burning the candle at both ends. This week and last, we’ve been rehearsing for new gigs, getting up very early to travel and play and then do it all again the next day. This “work” thing is much harder than I remembered! Of course, we’ve been …
One of the alternatives to full-hookup, RV parks ($50 per night, on average) is staying in a friend’s driveway for a period, instead. This has pluses and minuses. The pluses include saving money, trying something different than the RV park and spending some quality time with friends. The minuses are losing some or all of …